What's Up?

      Nothing much and yet a whole lot going on here.  Still not sure if we are going to have housemates or not. Hubby thinks they will be moving in by the end of this month. I'm still not ready for them, but will get there (I hope).  Right now I'm concentrating on organizing my house and getting ready for my next semester of college. It'll be my second to last (if you don't count summer semester) of my undergraduate degree if all goes well. Then just an internship to go before I become a Registered Dietician.  Easy Peasy, huh? Not really, it will be a stressful finger-nail-biting year for me.  Not really looking forward to added stresses. It is what it is, hopefully it will work out okay.

    Over on my other blog I posted a banana oat muffin recipe.  It was the result of a mess up, but it turned out okay.  The kiddies are eating them, so it can't be that bad.

   I think today I will work on carving project I have planned out. I'll post when I get it finished.  I'll be able to use my new tools that Hubby and the kiddies got me for my birthday almost two months ago. I've not been feeling real creative lately, so I think I'll try to force some creative juices to flow.

I hope all my dear readers are having a great day and staying warm (it's a chilly 26 degrees here).

A fool vents all his feelings, but a wise man holds them back.

Proverbs 29:11

 

  Some possibilities are on the wind, things I don't want to happen really. However I will do whatever is neccessary for all parties involved.  I want to vent my grievences. I want to grumble about how unfair life is. I want to tell everyone I can trust to keep a secret what may or may not happen.

 

I won't though, because in the end it's a small thing. A temporary inconvenience to help those who are needing help. Someone helped us once when we were in a desperate situation. I'm sure they didn't really want to, but in the end you do what is right.

 

A quick search brought me the scripture I posted above. God always has an answer doesn't he?  I will be grateful that we are in a position to lend a hand up to those who need one. I will not judge anyone's bad decisions as we all make them.  I will instead use the possiblity to show the Christian I am trying to grow into being. I will show love, empathy and kindness as these are what is needed by the couple I'm referring to more then anything. They have had enough of shaking heads, shame, and judgements.

 

I hate that my first reaction to the news was how it would affect us. My second reaction was okay how do we do this, how do we allow for the possibilty of adding more to our already crowded household. Now my thought is kind of a mixture of needing to remember to not worry about events that have yet to occur and wanting to begin rearranging things in case we need to make room.

 





Thanksgiving Thoughts

I don't celebrate in the idealic way of pilgrims sharing food with the Indians and happy dancing turkeys and all that.  We all know that is a false version of what really happened.

My Thanksgiving is a day given to thankfulness. I'm thankful to have four healthy beautiful children. I'm thankful for a loving, caring, generous husband. I'm thankful for a mostly okay extended family. I'm thankful for a roof over our heads, property to call our own, food to fill our bellies.  I cook a large meal every fourth Thursday in November in celebration for all the wonderful things I have to be thankful for. Also to show my love for family through good food.

Americans have gotten away from Thanksgiving. We are letting the corporate world encroach and destroy a great holiday. Instead of relaxing with family, enjoying company and food, we are tramping around stores trying to score a big deal on an object we will probably replace or not use in a few months.  It's all about the money, family does not exist as it should. This year we have pre-black Friday sales. So now you can leave your family at home and get your lonely, greedy self to your local big box store to save a few bucks (that you probably spent in filling the gas tank for this event) and buy that item that the store only carries a few of and so will probably not even be there anyway.  Of course you also get to enjoy the madness of standing room only, people pushing and shoving and just being discourteous, stores.  Sounds like a grand time all on Thanksgiving night before the turkey is even cold.

I also hear now you can celebrate Thanksgiving on whatever day you feel like it.  Saturday work better for you? Have it then, who cares.  How about celebrating it on the first of November. It doesn't matter that the actual holiday is three weeks away as long as it's convienent for everyone. I didn't realize life was suppose to be convienent. How did I miss that memo?

I love Christmas. I love watching the Christmas movies and listening to Christmas music(which I've been doing for more than a week already). I have already begun Christmas shopping. However, I love Thanksgiving as well. The excitement of planning out a big meal and hoping the timing works so everything is done at the same time. Making my house smell of pumpkin pie, fresh bread and roasting turkey.  Seeing the drool dripping from the chins of my loved ones as I pull one yummy dish after another out of the oven. Listening and trying to watch the Macy's Day parade on t.v. as my kids and hubby wrestle and I try to get those eggs to whip to a meringue.

Then, we all set down to a table loaded down with delicious sights and smells. We say what we are most thankful for this year. Next we bow heads and give a moment of praise to God for without Him nothing is possible.

After everyone has an overfull tummy and buttons are loosened, we gather around the xbox to play games as a family. We laugh, tease, and love each other. Let the world outside our front door scurry from store to store, aimously hoping to obtain that next material good. We KNOW what the true meaning of Thanksgiving should be and it doesn't end in -mart.

Happy Birthday Once Again

I made it through another year. Is it just me or do the years seem to go by faster and faster as we get a bit older. It seems as I was just writing a post on my 33rd birthday and here it is my 34th already. I've officially left my early thirties and now entering my mid-thirties. 

So what has the past year brought me? Well there have been two 5k races, a 16th wedding anniversary for Hubby and I, I gained another teenager (thankfully I have two years before youngest son becomes one), I lost a step-grandma, grandmother-in-law, and a great grandmother. I've nearly finished two more semesters of college (only about 2 more to go before I finish my undergrad). I've not really lost any weight but I believe I've gained in my fitness goals.

This time next year I'll, hopefully, be planning my graduation and getting ready to experience the joys of having a 16 year old daughter.

In the World, Not of the World

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And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.

Romans 12:2

And

Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.

For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.

And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever. 

1 John 2: 15-17

Also

 If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you.

John 15:19

This one too

²⁷ Pure and undefiled religion before God and the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their trouble,and to keep oneself unspotted from the world.

James 1:27

The thought that, as a Christian, you are suppose to be in the world but not of the world has been on mind a lot lately.  Especially with all the political debates, kids I know that have turned away from religion, my own kids' spiritual thoughts and behaviors, friends' and family members thoughts on religion. 

When I returned to Jesus and God last year I was called to be above. I'm one of God's children and as our Father he holds us to a high standard. That idea is not a hard one to wrap around. I have high expectations of my own children, I wouldn't think God would expect less of me (and he doesn't) then I would of them.  The difficult part is reaching those expectations. To not fall back on old habits. 

If Christians would hold to the standard of being in the world but not of the world, then I think Christians wouldn't have a bad name. People wouldn't close their doors or not answer phones when we come calling.  Think of how Jesus lived, everyone wanted to be around him.  

To me being in the world means living each day to it's fullest. I am to love and help my neighbors. I make sure that I'm not seen as prideful, boastful or just plain acting like I'm better than anyone.  Live simply and love greatly. Doesn't sound too difficult.

Not being of the world is the hard part.  Some things that have become acceptable today are scary. To see proof just look at some teenage and pre-teen kids Facebook pages. 12 year old girls wearing skimpy clothes, too much makeup and talking about how sexy they are or posing like they are making out with their girl friends.  Boys talking about fighting, and being encouraged in this. Both sexes disrespecting adults and each other.  Look at the shows premiering on t.v., people find funny what was shameful not too long ago. Does this mean we've grown as a nation? Are we more advanced since we now think it's okay to do whatever you want as long as it feels good?  I think if we were to find a poll (I'm sure there is one out there somewhere) you would find true Christians to be a minority. Not the ones that go to church for the fire insurance, but the ones who uphold the commandments and guidelines of the Bible. The ones who are trying to be Christ-like. Morals just aren't cool anymore.  

However, who would you rather spend time with...someone who is vulgar, coarse, parties every weekend (or every night) seems to be a ton of fun and a hot mess at the same time. Or someone who is graceful, one who you know doesn't judge. Who offers you a shoulder and a hug when needed. A trustful person who's faith glows from with in and makes you feel like a better person from just being near them. This person is not of this world, but in the world.  The amount of people I currently know(and knew) that are truly like this I can count on one hand. 

That is my goal, to be one of those people. I feel myself growing that way, but I hold myself back. I have some trouble in being not of the world. I listen to gossip, I feel judgmental at times, I have trouble letting go of anger, I still sometimes watch inappropriate shows, I feel as my support system isn't what I need. As I grow as a Christian there are more people that I no longer have any inclination to hang around. I realize I was not being true to myself when I was with them. This is what being of the world does to you, it makes you bitter, it makes you false, it makes you cynical, it makes you unloving. 

The song I posted at the top of this very long, novel of a post is one I feel gives a good message of how we should live. Our lives should show the proof of God's love for us. I'm sorry for the long post, this isn't what I had intended to write on when I decided to post today. It's just what came out when I started typing and thinking.  So I guess I'll do what I planned on for today tomorrow. I hope all my dear readers have a blessed Monday.

1. Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (Mormons) (100%)
2. Baha'i Faith (92%)
3. Jehovah's Witness (87%)
4. Mainline to Liberal Christian Protestants (87%)

1. Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (Mormons) (100%)
2. Mainline to Liberal Christian Protestants (87%)
3. Baha'i Faith (86%)
4. Orthodox Judaism (84%)

1. Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (Mormons) (100%)
2. Baha'i Faith (83%)
3. Orthodox Judaism (83%)
4. Mainline to Liberal Christian Protestants (81%)

1. Mainline to Liberal Christian Protestants (100%)
2. Baha'i Faith (97%)
3. Liberal Quakers (89%)
4. Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (Mormons) (86%

These are all the latest results of the beliefnet.com's blief-o-matic quiz.  I've been trying to do some thinking since Hubby has finally made it clear he isn't real comfortable with the church we attend.  His main complaints were the choir, the feeling of being underdressed, the size.  He enjoys the Sunday school class, but that's it.  He mentioned that maybe we are more Church of Christ people, hmm I don't know about that.

Hubby wants more of a small, casual church.  I like dressing up and a bit of order.  According to the belief-o-matic though I'm either mormon, mainline to liberal protestant (lutheran, methodist, presbytarian, etc.), or Baha'i. Orthodox Judaism and Quaker pops up in the top four quite often, though this was the first I noticed Jehovah Witness...I don't agree with the Jehovah Witness one.  The denomination I currently attend (Southern Baptist) is usually further down the list (around 80% or less so it puts it around 6th to 12th place usually).

I admit, there's been things mentioned from other members during Sunday school or the preacher will mention something during service that I don't agree with. I also keep all political beliefs to myself, because I would say most if not all of my Sunday school classmates would disagree with them. Now that I think about it, I keep most of my opinions and thoughts to myself when it comes to church.  I just don't think they would understand and I know they wouldn't agree. I also know that anything I say could possibly be fodder for gossip or private discussion that doesn't include me...well gossip. 

So I'm thinking of not attending anymore. Hubby doesn't like it, two of the kiddies don't like it and the other two have became indifferent to it. I don't want going to church on Sundays to seem like a chore or for them to feel forced to go. I love fellowship, I love going and singing hymns and praising the Lord and Jesus. I like listening to a good sermon.  I've got some ideas of local churches to try. One is a Church of Christ, one is a small Baptist church and the third is non-dominational (I think).  I think the latter two may be more inline with what my hubby would like. I'm not sure what to look for to encourage the kiddies. Maybe I ought to have them take the Belief-o-matic quiz. 

Introducing Our Newest Family Member

Like how all the guys are looking to one side while my silly girl is pretending to attack.

Well I guess, technically, we've added two members to our family this week. Yesterday my big brother added a new blessing to his family. A new bouncing baby boy arrived at 8:53 in the morning. Baby and mom are home and doing great and I guess daddy is too.
Today, with Hubby's grudgingly given okay, I got a new puppy.  He's the one in the white fur coat in the middle of the picture (just in case you couldn't tell with the other animals posing there).  We've currently dubbed him Chip (his other name was too similar sounding to one of our other four leggers name). He's a 10 month old lab mix (the previous owners think he may be mixed with a dalmation).  He's got the cutest spotted face and ears. His goofy ears just stand out from his head.  The poor little guy is undernourished due to his brother having a bad food aggression problem. He just wouldn't let him eat. So his previous owners decided to find a new home where he could eat all he wants. 

He is a timid thing as well. When he heard our two little dogs barking he didn't want to even step through the front door. After a minute of loving and coaxing he went on in. However, he wouldn't leave the front door. It's been a couple of hours now and he's starting to warm up a bit more. He's definitely a cuddle bug. Now to work on our oldest girl in reminding her that she's not the alpha.  She's having some issues and while it's sort funny seeing this little 8lb dog make a much bigger dog cower...it's not.

Well that's about it for now. I hope all my dear readers are having a great week.